Most people with GID are still placed in the very difficult
situation, because they often receive the strong prejudice and
distinctionfrom the society they belong. The same abhorrence also
targets the family of the GID people, making this problem more
complicated.
If you quickly through the web sites, you will find a lot of
assertion from the viewpoint of the GID people themselves. On the
otherhand, the problem of his or her family has not been discussed
enough. We must admit the difficulty to treat this matter, because
thedifferent family has different background. Everything can be more
confusing when children were involved. Still we do believe it isthe
time to start something. Things only get worse if you we do
nothing.
The important thing is that the both GID people and his or her
family equally have the right to live their life peacefully and
happily.GID people should pay the enough respect to the right of his
or her family before to chase their own desire, or their family may
feelunfair. We expect that the families can work together, share the
feeling with the GID people act against the discrimination.The
cooperation, not the confrontation must be the key. Based on this
idea, TFN is now trying to spotlight the problem lying betweenthe
GID people, their family and the society.
If GID people has spouse, divorce could be the easiest solution.
One might feel that splitting up with the black sheep make
thingsbetter for another people in the family. It is undeniable
option to obtain a quick relief. However, we strongly encourage the
peoplewith gender issue, and their families and friends to take all
necessary efforts to avoid the disruption. Please learn about
thediversity and equity. Although the way is never simple, if you
work it out in a positive manner and successfully re-established
thenice relationship, you will find you are all in the very good
team connected tightly by the mutual trust.
The purpose of TFN is to contribute the partners, families and
friends of people who have issues with gender by providing
variousaction and service, as well as the GID people themselves.We
collect the needs of the people with GID and their families to
educate the people relevant to the gender issue and general
public.We believe such an action also contribute to the construction
of the desirable society which acknowledges the human right and the
dignity. |